The Darkroom Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Q: What is the Darkroom?
A: The Darkroom is a kinky community for English-speaking adults over 18, where we celebrate all identities and orientations while having consensual fun. Here, we explore our wildest desires together!
Q: How do I connect to The Darkroom on my mobile?
A: Follow the tutorial here https://riskydares.com/go/darkroom-app/
Q: How can I delete my account?
A: If you wish to delete your account, please contact the admin RiskyDares 👑 – ADMIN and we’ll guide you through the process!
Q: How do I request to delete something?
A: If you need to delete content, fill the form available here and we’ll handle it promptly!
Q: How can I invite my friends/slave/Master to join The Darkroom?
A: Send them the following link with all the instructions: https://riskydares.com/go/darkroom
Q: How do you verify that everyone is of legal age?
A: We take age verification seriously! I manually verify every new member of this community. If I have any doubt about their age, I’ll ask for an ID verification.
Q: Who should I report to if someone is underage?
A: If you suspect someone is underage, please report it immediately to the admin RiskyDares 👑 – ADMIN
Q: What should I do if someone harasses/threatens/blackmails me?
A: If you find yourself in a sticky situation, don’t hesitate to reach out to the moderators or the admin RiskyDares 👑 – ADMIN.
Q: What does consent mean?
A: Consent is the golden rule of our community! It means everyone involved agrees to what’s happening, and it can be revoked at any time. Always check in and respect boundaries.
Q: What does safer play mean?
A: Safer play is all about minimizing risks while maximizing pleasure! This includes using protection (condom, PrEP, …), regular STI testing, deep understanding of what you are doing, education about consequences and risk mitigation, and open communication about boundaries and limits. Safety first, pleasure second!
Q: What is harm reduction?
A: Harm reduction is about minimizing risks and maximizing safety in our adventures. It’s all about making informed choices and looking out for each other!
Q: What is a safeword?
A: A safeword is your magical word that lets everyone know when to pause or stop. It’s a vital part of consent and communication in any BSDM/kink scene. Remember, if they say it, it’s time to listen!
Q: What is blackmail and why is it prohibited?
A: Blackmail is the act of threatening to reveal personal information to coerce someone into doing something against their will. It’s a serious violation of trust and is strictly forbidden in our community!
Q: What is findom?
A: Findom, or financial domination, is a kink where one person (the submissive) gives money or gifts to another (the dominant) as a form of submission. It’s all about that delicious power exchange.
Q: What are the risks of posting my nude photos online?
A: Posting nudes can be risky! Somebody you know may recognize you and AI recognition software can track images across the web and connect your naked photos with your real identity, so think twice before sharing. Once it’s out there, it’s out there – forever. Most of us find it hot and fun, but informed decisions are very important.
Remember that everybody can save, download or screenshot your content and there is no way to prevent it.
Q: What are the possible consequences of online exposure of nudes?
A: Online exposure can lead to unwanted attention, harassment, or even legal issues in some Countries. Remember, once it’s out there, it’s out there—so think carefully before sharing!
Q: Can I humiliate and body-shame someone non-consensually?
A: Absolutely not! Non-consensual humiliation and body-shaming are strictly forbidden in our community. Consent is key, and everyone deserves respect and kindness. Let’s keep it fun and uplifting.
Q: What should I do if I realize I have an addiction and want help?
A: Acknowledging the need for help is the first step! If you’re looking for support, check out these resources for addiction services tailored for the LGBTQ community
Q: Can I use words like “fag” or “slut” here?
A: Absolutely! In our playful playground, we embrace these terms as expressions of identity and desire. Just remember, context and consent is key—let’s keep it fun and consensual and if you have any doubt ask them if they like to be called like that.
Q: What are edging and gooning?
A: Edging is the tantalizing art of bringing yourself to the brink of cumming and then holding back—deliciously frustrating! Gooning, on the other hand, is that blissful state of mind where you lose yourself in pleasure, often while edging. It’s all about that euphoric journey
Q: What can admins/moderators see? Can they see my private chats?
A: Admins and moderators can see the content of public chats and rooms, but your private chats are just that—private! We respect your privacy!
Q: What can I do if I don’t like someone?
A: No worries! You can simply ignore, block, or report them to the admin RiskyDares 👑 – ADMIN
Q: Why are some rooms restricted by age, location, likes or roles?
A: We want to ensure everyone feels comfortable and safe! Restrictions help create a space that’s right for everyone involved. But don’t worry: there are lots of public rooms accessible to everybody!
Q: Do you organize in-person meetups?
A: Yes, sometimes we do! Keep an eye out for announcements if you’re interested in some real-life fun
Q: Are women, trans, cross-dressers, or non-binary folks welcome?
A: Absolutely! Everyone is welcome in our kinky playground—let’s celebrate diversity.
Q: Is what happens here legal?
A: Yes, where the admin is located it is legal (but double check your local laws if you have any doubt!). Everything is consensual and between adults.
Q: Who is Master Riskydares?
A: Master RiskyDares 👑 – ADMIN is the admin and your playful guide through the world of kink! With over a decade of experience, he’s here to lead the way, explore desires, and ensure everyone has a blast. Get ready for some naughty adventures!
Q: Who decides on bans, new games, moderation, etc.?
A: The ultimate decision-maker is Master RiskyDares 👑 – ADMIN, with input from the moderators. They work together to keep the community safe, fun, and respectful.
Q: What is exposure?
A: Exposure refers to the act of revealing oneself or being revealed in a sexual context, often in a public or semi-public setting. It can be thrilling, but remember to always consider the risks involved!
Q: What do you think about public exposure agreements (PEAs)?
A: PEAs are a no-go in public rooms because they often contain personal information.
Q: What can I do if I have a problem?
A: If you encounter any issues, don’t hesitate to reach out to @RiskyDares 👑 – ADMIN or the moderators. We’re here to help you navigate your experience!
Q: What’s Master Riskydares’ safeword?
A: The safeword is RED! If you ever need to pause or stop, just say or write it!
Q: Can I use AI to edit or create new photos?
A: Nope! Using AI for photo manipulation is a no-go here. If I catch you (and I will), it’s a permanent ban—no exceptions!
Q: Can I save the content?
A: Yes, you can save content for personal use on your devices, but sharing it outside of this community without explicit permission is a big no-no!
Q: Can I share outside this server?
A: Absolutely not! What happens in the Darkroom stays in the Darkroom—let’s keep it private!
Q: Why aren’t you on Telegram?
A: We prefer to keep our community cozy and secure right here! Telegram just doesn’t fit our vibe anymore and they ban groups and users too easily
Q: Why can’t I share ID cards and personal info? Can I do it privately?
A: Sharing personal info (ID cards, driver licenses, passports, addresses, real names, …) in public rooms is a no-go to protect the community and everyone’s privacy. Keep it safe and secure—no exceptions.
Q: Ho can I remove the message “Messages failed to send – RETRY”
A: You can solve this in the settings tab. If you click on your profile pic, go to general settings and then “clear cache” option, that should solve the problem
Q: What if I want my content deleted?
A: You must ask for content removal using this form and it will be deleted in the next 48 hours.
If you have your own dedicated exposure room and you ask for content removal, all your content will be removed but you will also be banned from the community. The admin reserve the right to ban anybody asking to remove content too often. Content removal is time consuming and while I respect consent and I delete if asked, I don’t want to waste too much time on that.
Q: Why I keep seeing the message “Unable to decrypt: The sender’s session has not sent us the keys for this message” when I open old private chats?
A: You changed your device or uninstalled and installed the app again. All the private conversations in this app are end-to-end encrypted.
It means that just you and the person you are chatting with can read them. To do that your app use a special encryption key that you must save in a safe place and use again if you change your device or uninstall the app. If you don’t do it you will lose all your private conversations chat history.
To save it just go to Settings, Recovery and Change Recovery Key. Save it and use it again when you need.
Q: What is PrEP?
A: PrEP, or pre-exposure prophylaxis, is a medication that can help prevent HIV infection when taken consistently. It’s a powerful tool for safer play. Discover more here
Q: What if I need psychological help or someone in the community is struggling?
A: We care about your well-being but we are not mental health professionals! If you need help, check out these resources for LGBTQ mental health support
Q: What does U=U mean?
A: U=U stands for “Undetectable = Untransmittable.” If someone living with HIV is on effective treatment and has an undetectable viral load, they cannot transmit the virus to others. Discover more here